Losing a loved one can be one of the most shattering and traumatic experiences in life. The longing to connect with those who have passed away is a natural part of the grieving process. For many, the belief that the soul lives on after death brings comfort, and the idea that a deceased person may try to communicate with the living offers hope and healing. But how can you tell if a loved one who has passed away is trying to reach out?
In spiritual circles, it's widely believed that the deceased can send us messages through various signs, symbols, and intuitive experiences. Whether you’re open to these possibilities or are simply curious about the idea, this blog will explore the ways in which deceased individuals may try to communicate and how to recognize these signs.
1. Dreams: A Gateway Between Worlds
Dreams are believed to be one of the most common ways that deceased loved ones communicate with the living. While we sleep, our conscious mind rests, and our subconscious becomes more open to spiritual messages. Many people report having vivid dreams of their loved ones after they’ve departed, and these dreams often feel more real and emotional.
In these dreams, the deceased may appear to offer comfort, provide guidance, or simply reassure you that they are at peace. The emotions you experience during these dreams are often intense, and upon waking, the dream may feel like a direct visit from the other side. Such dreams leave you with a sense of peace or relief, even after waking.
What to do: Pay attention to recurring dreams or particularly vivid ones. It is advised to keep a dream journal by your bedside to record the details, as messages from deceased loved ones in dreams may contain deeper meaning or guidance that becomes clearer over time.
2. Signs and Synchronicities
Synchronicities are meaningful coincidences that seem too perfect to be random. After a loved one’s passing, you may notice an increase in synchronicities, which can be interpreted as signs from the deceased. These occurrences often seem to appear just when you need comfort or reassurance.
Common synchronicities might include seeing your loved one’s favorite number repeatedly- such as 11:11, 222 on a license plate, or $77.77 on a receipt. Others have shared hearing a song that reminds you of them at the perfect moment. Or finding objects like feathers or coins in unexpected places. These signs can serve as gentle reminders that your loved one is still around and watching over you. And more importantly, it could also be a sign that they are trying to send a message.
What to do: Stay open and conscious of your environment. When a synchronicity occurs, take note of how you felt at that moment and what was on your mind. Often, the timing of these signs is just as important as the sign itself.
3. Unexplained Sensations: Feeling Their Presence
Many people who have lost loved ones describe sensing their presence in several ways. You might feel a sudden drop in temperature, experience an unexplainable draft, or even feel as though someone is present nearby. These sensations are often subtle but can be very powerful, leaving you with the undeniable feeling that your loved one is close by.
In some cases, people report feeling a gentle touch on their shoulder, a stroke of their hair, or a hand on their back, as though their loved one is physically comforting them. These sensations may occur at moments of heightened emotion, such as when you’re feeling particularly sad, lost, or in need of comfort.
What to do: If you experience any of these sensations, you must trust your intuition. It’s easy to dismiss them as coincidence or your imagination, but often, these experiences are subtle forms of communication meant to bring comfort and assurance.
4. Animal Messengers: Nature as a Channel
Animals, including your house pets, birds, butterflies, and other creatures from nature, are often thought to carry spiritual messages from deceased loved ones. This belief is common in many cultures, as animals are seen as more in tune with the spiritual realm than humans. After losing someone close, you might notice certain animals behaving in unusual or striking ways as if they are trying to catch your attention.
For example, a butterfly might land on you, or a bird may repeatedly visit your window. If you feel a sense of connection between the appearance of these animals and your deceased loved one, it may be a message that they are watching over you.
What to do: Pay attention to your feelings, especially when you encounter an animal that seems to be acting as a messenger. Reflect on what the animal symbolizes to you and how it relates to your loved one. You can also ask the universe or your loved one for more signs if you’re unsure.
5. Smelling Familiar Scents: Aromas as a Connection
The smell is closely linked to memory, and many people report smelling familiar scents associated with their deceased loved ones after they’ve passed. These scents might include a particular perfume, cigarette smoke, or the smell of their favorite flowers or foods. These experiences can be brief but incredibly impactful, as the scent often appears without any apparent source.
The sudden appearance of a familiar smell, especially in a place where it shouldn’t logically be often disappearing just as quickly, is a common way that spirits communicate. It’s a subtle yet powerful way for your loved one to let you know they’re nearby.
What to do: If you encounter a familiar scent and can’t recognize or define the source of the small, acknowledge it as a potential message. You may want to take a moment to quietly speak to your loved one, letting them know you recognize their presence.
6. Hearing Their Voice: Audible Messages
Although less common than other signs, some people report hearing the voice of their departed loved one. This can happen in different ways— you may hear their voice in your mind as if they’re speaking directly to you, or you might hear a familiar phrase, laugh, or word spoken aloud in a quiet room.
Hearing their voice or their quirky ‘sayings’ is often a comforting experience, as it brings a direct sense of connection to your loved one. This form of communication is often brief but unmistakable.
What to do: If you hear your loved one’s voice, take a moment to acknowledge it and reflect on what they might be trying to communicate. Trust that this form of contact is their way of letting you know they are still present in your life.
7. Feeling Intuitive Nudges or Gut Feelings
Many people receive subtle intuitive nudges or gut feelings that they can clearly associate with their deceased loved one. These are often moments when you suddenly know or sense something without understanding how you know it. This type of communication is often internal, manifesting as a deep sense of knowing, or as an urge to take action or avoid certain situations.
These intuitive messages may guide you in decision-making, provide comfort during difficult times, or offer reassurance that you’re on the right path. Your loved one may be working with your intuition to steer you toward your highest good or to warn you of potential dangers.
What to do: Trust your intuition and recognize that these gut feelings might be a form of guidance from your loved one. When you feel these nudges, pause and consider what message might be coming through, and reflect on how it aligns with your life or current situation.
8. Physical Manifestations: Signs in the Physical World
In some cases, deceased loved ones may try to communicate through physical manifestations. These could include objects moving on their own, lights flickering, or electronics malfunctioning in unusual ways. While these occurrences can seem spooky or unsettling at first, they are often meant as playful or loving signs of a spirit’s presence.
Many people report clocks stopping at the exact time of their loved one’s passing or noticing their favorite picture or possession being knocked over. These manifestations are intended to grab your attention and let you know that your loved one is nearby.
What to do: If you notice physical signs, try to remain calm and open to the possibility that your loved one is trying to communicate. Acknowledge the sign and take comfort in knowing that they are reaching out from the other side.
Conclusion: Being Open to Communication
When a loved one passes, the desire for continued connection is a natural part of the healing process. While not everyone experiences direct communication from the deceased, staying open and aware of signs can offer comfort and reassurance that your loved one’s spirit remains close by. Recognizing these signs—whether through dreams, synchronicities, sensations, or physical manifestations—can provide peace and help you feel connected to those who have crossed over.
Eventually, communication from the deceased is a deeply personal and distinctive experience. By trusting your intuition and being receptive to the subtle ways in which spirits try to reach out, you can foster a sense of ongoing connection with your departed loved ones from the Spirit World.
About The Author-Meesh Carra
Meesh Carra, also known as "The Nomadic Medium," discovered her psychic abilities after a profound spiritual journey. Raised with a fascination for the unseen, she connected with her gifts through meditation, travel, and plant medicine ceremonies. With a background in Psychology and Sociology, she offers psychic and mediumship readings, helping people find closure and spiritual clarity. Having worked with individuals globally, Meesh integrates mindfulness into her practice to guide others toward their purpose.
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